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Father of the bride speech examples

6 speeches to start from. Put in the names, pick the one that sounds like you and replace the bracketed parts with your own memories. Each one shows how long it takes to say as written.

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6 speeches

Short and welcoming

About 45 seconds · 111 words

A father who wants to welcome the room, say he is proud and hand over.

Good evening, everyone. I'm [your name], [daughter]'s father, and it is my great pleasure to welcome you all here today.

Thank you for coming, particularly those of you who travelled a long way. Looking around this room at the people who love [daughter] and [partner] is the best part of the day for me.

[daughter], you have made me proud every day of your life, and never more than today. You look beautiful.

[partner], you are very welcome to our family. You have been one of us for a good while already. Today just makes it official.

I'd ask you all to stand and raise your glasses. To [daughter] and [partner].

The proud father

About 1 min 45 sec · 213 words

The classic: a welcome, a memory of her growing up, a word to her partner and a toast.

Good evening, everyone. For those I haven't met, I'm [your name], and I have the honour of being [daughter]'s father.

On behalf of [your spouse or family, by name] and myself, you are all very welcome. Thank you for being here to celebrate with us.

I'd like to say a few words about my daughter. When [daughter] was small, [a short memory from her childhood that shows who she was]. Even then you could see [the quality that she still has].

She grew into a woman who [what she is like now: how she treats people, what she works at, what she cares about]. I would like to take the credit. The truth is that she did most of it herself.

Then one day she brought [partner] home. [Your honest first impression, or the moment you knew [partner] was right for her.] What matters to a father is simple: is she happy, and is she cared for. With [partner], the answer to both has always been yes.

[partner], thank you for the way you look after each other. You are welcome in our family, today and always.

[daughter], I love you. I could not be prouder.

Would you all please stand, and raise your glasses to the happy couple. To [daughter] and [partner].

Funny, then sincere

About 1 min 45 sec · 241 words

A father with a dry sense of humour and a daughter who shares it.

Good evening, everyone. I'm [your name], father of the bride. I have been asked to keep this short, which is the first time today anyone has asked me to spend less.

You are all very welcome. I recognise most of you. For those I don't recognise, I hope you are enjoying the meal and I hope you were invited.

I want to tell you a little about [daughter]. From the day she could talk, she knew her own mind. [A funny, affectionate story about her being determined as a child.] I lost that argument. I have lost most of them since.

As a teenager she [a gentle joke: the phone bill, the bathroom, the driving lessons]. As an adult she has become [something you admire about her]. I honestly don't know where she gets it. Her mother says the same thing, in a different tone.

And then there is [partner]. The first time [partner] came to the house, [what happened: nerves, the dog, the dinner, the match on the television]. I decided there and then to reserve judgement. I'm pleased to say the judgement is in, and it is a good one.

[partner], you have a great deal of patience. You'll need it. But you have chosen the best person I know, and she has chosen well too.

[daughter], you have been making us laugh and making us proud for [number] years. Don't stop.

Glasses up, everyone. To [daughter] and [partner].

On behalf of both parents

About 1 min 30 sec · 187 words

When you are speaking for the two of you, or for the whole family.

Good evening, everyone. I'm [your name], and I'm speaking tonight for [your spouse or partner's name] as well as myself, which is unusual, because normally it is the other way round.

We would both like to welcome you, and to welcome especially [partner]'s family, [names]. It has been a pleasure getting to know you, and we are delighted that our families are joined today.

When [daughter] was born, we thought we knew what we were doing. We didn't. She taught us as she went. She was [what she was like as a child], and she has always been [a quality you both see in her].

[Your spouse's name] wants me to mention [one thing your spouse would want said: a memory, a quality, a thank-you]. I want to mention [your own].

[partner], from the two of us: thank you for making our daughter so happy. There is always a place for you at our table. You know where the kettle is.

[daughter], we love you. Everything we hoped for you is in this room today.

Please stand with us and raise your glasses. To [daughter] and [partner].

With an Irish toast

About 1 min · 137 words

A welcome in the old style, and a blessing for the two of them.

Good evening, and céad míle fáilte, a hundred thousand welcomes to each and every one of you.

I'm [your name], [daughter]'s father. It is a great day for our family, and it is all the better for having you here to share it.

[daughter], you have been the light of our house since the day you arrived. [partner], you are getting the best of us, and we are very glad it is you.

I will leave the long speeches to those who are better at them. But I would like to give the two of you an old blessing.

May you have warm words on a cold evening, a full moon on a dark night, and the road downhill all the way to your door.

Please stand, everyone, and raise your glasses. To [daughter] and [partner]. Sláinte.

For a father who might well up

About 45 seconds · 99 words

Short lines you can get through with a lump in your throat. Pause wherever you need to.

Good evening, everyone. I'm [your name], [daughter]'s dad.

I'm going to keep this short, because I'm not sure how far I'll get.

Thank you all for coming.

[daughter]. I remember the day you were born as if it were this morning. I remember [one small memory]. And now here you are.

You are kind. You are strong. You are [your own word for her]. I am so proud to be your father.

[partner]. Look after each other. That is all I ask, and I already know you will.

Right. That's me.

Please raise your glasses. To [daughter] and [partner].

What makes one work

Welcome them, say who she is, welcome the person she married, and tell her you are proud. Everything else is optional.

Put in

  • A welcome to everyone, and to the other family by name.
  • One memory of your daughter that shows who she is.
  • A warm word said directly to her partner.
  • Telling her you are proud of her. Say it plainly.
  • A toast to the two of them.

Leave out

  • The cost of the wedding, beyond one light line.
  • Old boyfriends, and stories she has asked you not to tell.
  • Advice on marriage that runs to more than a sentence.
  • Forgetting her partner until the last line.
  • Trying to hide it if you get emotional. Pause, breathe, carry on.

Before you stand up

What should the father of the bride say?

Welcome the guests and the other family, share one memory of your daughter, say something warm to the person she has married, tell her you are proud, and propose a toast to them both.

How long should a father of the bride speech be?

Three to five minutes, or about 400 to 650 words at 130 words a minute. Shorter is fine. The room wants to hear that you love her, not her whole life story.

Does the father of the bride speak first?

Traditionally yes, as host, followed by the groom and then the best man. Couples often change the order now, so ask them what they have planned.

What if I get emotional?

Nobody will mind. Pause, take a breath and a sip of water, and carry on. Short sentences are easier to get through, and printing the speech in large type helps you find your place.

Can someone else give this speech?

Of course. A mother, a stepfather, a brother, an aunt or the bride herself can give it. Change the opening line of any example above and the rest still works.

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