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Groom speech examples

6 speeches to start from. Put in your names, pick the one that sounds like you and replace the bracketed parts with your own people and stories. Each one shows how long it takes to say as written.

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6 speeches

Short and grateful

About 1 min · 132 words

A groom who wants to thank people properly and get back to the party.

Good evening, everyone. On behalf of my wife and me (and yes, I have been waiting all day to say that), thank you for being here.

Some of you crossed the country for this and some of you crossed an ocean. It means more to us than we can say.

To our parents, [names], thank you for everything you have done for today and for every day before it.

To [best man], [bridesmaids or wedding party names] and everyone who stood with us today, thank you for keeping us calm and on time.

And [partner]. You look incredible. Marrying you is the best decision I have ever made, and I intend to remind you of that regularly.

Please raise your glasses with me. To family and friends, and to my wife, [partner].

The traditional thank-yous

About 1 min 45 sec · 227 words

The classic groom's speech: everyone thanked in order, then the toast.

Good evening, everyone. My wife and I would like to welcome you all and thank you for sharing today with us.

First, to [name of whoever spoke before you], thank you for those kind words, and for [something specific they said or did].

To [partner]'s parents, [names]: thank you for welcoming me into your family from the very first day, and for raising the person I get to spend my life with. I promise to look after [her or him].

To my own parents, [names]: everything good in me came from you. Thank you for [one specific thing], and for a lifetime of [what they gave you].

To [best man]: thank you for standing beside me today, as you have for [number] years. I would ask you to be gentle in a few minutes, but I know you too well.

To [bridesmaids, groomsmen and anyone else in the wedding party]: you have been wonderful, and you all look the part.

To everyone who helped make today happen, [venue staff, celebrant, musicians, anyone who made or lent something], thank you.

And lastly, to [partner]. [One or two sentences only for [partner]: when you knew, or what you love most.] I am the luckiest man in this room and I know it.

Would you all please stand and raise your glasses. To [the bridesmaids, or "absent friends", or "family"].

Funny, with a soft landing

About 1 min 45 sec · 230 words

A groom who is comfortable with a microphone. The jokes are on himself.

Good evening. For those who don't know me, I'm [your name], and I'm the one who got very lucky today.

I have been told this is the last time I will speak for five minutes without being interrupted, so I intend to enjoy it.

I'd like to start by thanking you all for coming. I know how much effort it takes: the travel, the outfits, the babysitters, pretending to like the starter. We appreciate every bit of it.

Thank you to our parents, [names], who have been generous, patient and only occasionally opinionated about the seating plan.

Thank you to my best man, [name]. I chose him because he is loyal, he is dependable, and he knows too much to be left out.

When I first met [partner], [where and how you met]. I played it very cool. [What you actually did, which was not cool.] Somehow it worked.

Since then, [partner] has taught me a great many things. That the cushions on the bed are not for sleeping on. That "I'm nearly ready" is a state of mind and not a measure of time. And that being loved by someone like [partner] makes everything else easy.

[partner], you are the funniest, kindest, most [your own word] person I know. Thank you for saying yes, and then for actually turning up.

Everyone, please raise a glass. To my wife, [partner].

Mostly about the person you married

About 1 min 30 sec · 192 words

A groom who wants to keep the thank-yous short and say the important thing well.

Good evening, everyone, and thank you for being here. To our families, to the friends who stood up with us today, and to everyone who helped: thank you. You know who you are and we will be thanking you properly all night.

I want to use the rest of my time to talk about [partner].

I met [partner] [when and where]. I remember [one detail from that day that you still remember clearly].

What I didn't know then was [what you have learned about [partner] since]. [partner] is the person who [something [partner] does for other people]. The person who [something small and specific that only you would notice].

There have been hard days as well as easy ones. [If you wish, one sentence about a hard time you came through together.] On every one of them, you were the person I wanted beside me.

[partner], I don't have a grand promise that would sound good in a speech. I have a small one. I will keep choosing you, on the ordinary days most of all.

Would you all stand, if you are able, and raise a glass with me. To [partner].

With an Irish toast

About 1 min 15 sec · 151 words

A warm welcome, a few thank-yous and a blessing to finish.

Good evening, and a hundred thousand welcomes. Whether you came from down the road or from the far side of the world, you are very welcome, and my wife and I are delighted to have you.

Thank you to our parents, [names], who made today possible in more ways than one. Thank you to [best man] and to [the wedding party] for minding us so well. And thank you to [anyone else: the celebrant, the musicians, the venue].

[partner], I am not sure what I did to deserve you, and I have decided not to ask too many questions in case there has been a mistake.

I'd like to finish with an old Irish toast, for everyone in this room.

May the roof above us never fall in, and may we friends beneath it never fall out.

Please raise your glasses. To friends and family, and to my wife, [partner]. Sláinte.

For a nervous groom

About 45 seconds · 82 words

Four short thank-yous and one true sentence. Hard to get wrong.

Hello, everyone. I'm told I have to say a few words. I plan to take that literally.

Thank you all for coming. It means the world to both of us.

Thank you to our parents, [names], for everything.

Thank you to [best man] and [the wedding party] for getting us here in one piece.

And thank you, [partner], for marrying me. I am happier today than I have ever been.

That's all I've got. Please raise your glasses. To my wife, [partner].

What makes one work

A groom's speech is mostly gratitude. Get the names right, say one true thing to the person you married, and you have done the job.

Put in

  • A welcome and a thank-you to the guests, especially those who travelled.
  • Both sets of parents, by name.
  • The best man and the wedding party.
  • A few sentences said straight to the person you married.
  • A toast to finish.

Leave out

  • A thank-you list so long that people stop listening. Group the names.
  • Forgetting someone. Write the names down and tick them off.
  • Jokes at your new spouse's expense.
  • Thanking suppliers at length. One line covers it.
  • Saving your nerves for the drink. Speak first, celebrate after.

Before you stand up

What should the groom say in his speech?

Welcome and thank the guests, thank both sets of parents, thank the best man and the wedding party, say something to the person you have married, and finish with a toast.

How long should a groom's speech be?

Three to five minutes is plenty. At about 130 words a minute that is roughly 400 to 650 words. The thank-yous take longer than you expect, so time it out loud.

Who does the groom thank?

The guests, both sets of parents, the best man, the bridesmaids and groomsmen, and anyone who made a particular effort for the day. Write the names down so nobody is missed.

Who does the groom toast?

Traditionally the bridesmaids. Many grooms now toast their new wife or husband, or family and friends. Any of them is fine; pick one and say it clearly.

Can the couple give the speech together?

Yes, and many do. Split it so each of you thanks your own side and says a few words about the other, then give the toast together.

The other speeches

Helping with the rest of the day? Wedding songs for every moment and the planning checklist are here too.

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